You Are Ready for Estate Planning—But Your Spouse Is Not. Now What?
Estate planning is one of those things that everyone knows they should do, but not everyone feels the same urgency about getting it done. If you are ready to put a plan in place, but your spouse is not on board, it can feel frustrating—especially when you are thinking about protecting your family’s future. So, what can you do when you want to move forward, but your spouse is not interested?
- Understand Their Concerns
Before jumping into why estate planning is essential, take a step back and listen. Does your spouse find the topic uncomfortable? Are they worried it is too expensive? Do they assume that because you do not have a large estate, planning is not necessary? Understanding their hesitation is the first step in addressing it.
- Explain the Benefits
Many people assume estate planning is only about distributing assets after death, but it is also about protecting your spouse and children if something happens to you. A good plan includes powers of attorney and a living will, which means your spouse would have the authority to make decisions if you were incapacitated, ensuring that your medical wishes are honored and critical healthcare choices are made according to your preferences. It also allows your assets to transfer smoothly without unnecessary court involvement.
- Start with Small Steps
If diving into a full estate plan feels overwhelming to them, start with just one step. A simple conversation with an attorney can clarify the process and make it feel more manageable. You can also start by creating a will or setting up powers of attorney and build from there.
- Emphasize the Burden of Not Planning
No one likes to think about worst-case scenarios, but the reality is that if you do not plan, your spouse could face unnecessary stress and legal complications. Without an estate plan, the courts—not your family—will decide who manages your affairs and what happens to your assets.
- Meet with an Estate Planning Attorney Together
Sometimes, hearing from a professional makes all the difference. A consultation with an estate planning attorney can help clear up misconceptions, answer questions, and highlight the importance of getting a plan in place.
If you are ready to get started, but your spouse still has concerns, Wilson Law is here to help. Contact us to discuss your options and create a plan that works for both of you. Call us at 866.603.5976 or fill out our online form, and we will be in touch to schedule an appointment at your convenience.
